tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post3702578422359354358..comments2023-05-08T08:22:14.872-04:00Comments on The McGregor Journey: A Moment With BiasThe Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12525689244564970063noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post-80864179566689212972008-07-19T22:41:00.000-04:002008-07-19T22:41:00.000-04:00I think you should stay at home.(If you could see ...I think you should stay at home.<BR/><BR/>(If you could see me right this very moment, you might see a glimpse of a sparkle in my eyes. Just have to say that in case you haven't gathered that my humor can have a bit of a smart ass response to it. Works for some, doesn't work for others. Unfortunately all of this explanation for my little joke makes it all rather lame and not nearly as amusing as it would have been had I not typed out this explanation. And stuff.)<BR/><BR/>So yeah. I think you should stay at home. I mean, why not? ;-)Gretchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07425898963082396240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post-6750984531291794532008-07-19T10:26:00.000-04:002008-07-19T10:26:00.000-04:00People always have something to say when they shou...People always have something to say when they should just be quiet. I think this is a very personal decision. I have friends who feel like they are constantly defending themselves for going back to work - it's so wrong for people to make them feel that way. I'm sorry you're experiencing it too.Staciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09371050778429168983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post-86550958199472151052008-07-18T16:53:00.000-04:002008-07-18T16:53:00.000-04:00Great post. Congrats on returning back to work and...Great post. Congrats on returning back to work and doing whatever is best for you and your family all around! I returned to work in January after 4 months home and while I would prefer to work a little less, I feel overall that I'm a much better Mama when I am with our son when I do have time away. Plus, he is thriving at daycare!<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I ditto the "Boo on the judgement" and while some people say things unintentionally, there are definitely some that just need to stick it! <BR/><BR/>good wishes<BR/>Jennigigglechirphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03805751570769453397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post-30609607887548272472008-07-18T15:23:00.000-04:002008-07-18T15:23:00.000-04:00Jo, My suggestion is to BREATHE!!! Your husband, m...Jo, My suggestion is to BREATHE!!! Your husband, my son, survivied eventhough I thrust him into daycare at 6 weeks and look at him now! Seriously, sometimes I thought if he truned out to be an axe murderer everyone would blame it on me, but I let that pass!<BR/><BR/>I agree with the women who have already commented on this page, the choice is yours and Mike's and no one elses. Please consider that sometimes things pop of people's mouths that are meant to be well intentioned. Sometimes they are not even meant for you but for us who wish we could have or should have made a different choice oh so long ago.<BR/><BR/>You're good at what you do and that's the best role model behaviour a kid could get...ask mine!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Love PCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post-69236875865449257882008-07-18T11:17:00.000-04:002008-07-18T11:17:00.000-04:00People are always sticking their noses where they ...People are always sticking their noses where they don't belong. I doubt it brings you any solace but when I decided to stay home and put my career on hold I was judged by those same types of people. How could a strong and smart woman decide to do that, they would ask. <BR/><BR/>Do what is best for you and you will be happy. :)Sandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09795516821463286235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post-49264008601573926212008-07-18T11:09:00.000-04:002008-07-18T11:09:00.000-04:00It is okay for you to return to work! I read this...It is okay for you to return to work! <BR/><BR/>I read this post earlier in the week and thought it was great:<BR/><BR/>http://www.5minutesforparenting.com/35/if-every-mom-were-a-stay-at-home-mom/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post-25481794916717505832008-07-18T08:27:00.000-04:002008-07-18T08:27:00.000-04:00Boo to the judging. No judgment here. So sorry t...Boo to the judging. No judgment here. So sorry that you are feeling that!Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17479635873494501024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4230137143430251965.post-10134707681824042272008-07-18T04:09:00.000-04:002008-07-18T04:09:00.000-04:00Thank you for this post. I'm not yet at the point...Thank you for this post. I'm not yet at the point where EVERYONE feels the need to judge me for my desire to return to work post-adoption...however, I've had several suggest that I wasn't doing "the best" for my children by returning to work after maternity leave.<BR/><BR/>I posted once about the choice of staying at home versus going to work. That was mostly my way of saying that people should back off and that it's MY decision and how dare people judge me for wanting to return to my career. Nobody thinks of judging men who return to their jobs post child.<BR/><BR/>You've worked hard to get to where you are and you're going to be a wonderful mom (I'm sure Ashton would say so-so far, I'm merely going off of what feeling I get from you!) despite the fact you're returning.<BR/><BR/>In fact, I'd argue (as I do for myself), perhaps returning to work will help to make you that much better.<BR/><BR/>You're showing your son that it's ok to have a family and a career and love is not directly proportionate to the amount of time you stay away from work.<BR/><BR/>Rant over.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497934982755239873noreply@blogger.com